I would go with blue sockets: mastery/stam yellow sockets:mastery red sockets: parry/mastery.
Parry around 2-3% higher then dodge for hold the line & windwalk enchant. Amount of stamina is more a personal opinion but i think 150k hp should be enough specially for 10mans, but some encounters require more EH as others.
Slightly more balanced stats:
Minimum hp really depends on the content you're doing for hardmodes 160k hp unbuffed might be better for example just take enough stam so you're confident your healers can counter spike damage. After that the more mastery the better and keep parry a bit higher.
This is what i've done: Armory