I'd still gem a +12 stam bonus if it only required a yellow gem and use a 10defense/15stam socket. Defense is actually more avoidance overall than dodge or agi so it's not a terrible thing to match a socket bonus too. But ya, stam stam stamity stam stam stam is the montra.
And sorry, but if you are gemming for avoidance you ARE doing it wrong as either an MT or an OT (especially since there's no substantial difference between an MT and an OT in ICC).
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