As far as i know Blood caked Blow can be parried and is only a 3ish % dmg increase, so imo its a bad talent for tanking.
Here is my build atm:
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I used to skip unholy blight and get 5/5 of bladed armor, but UB is very nice for picking up adds so i have gone back to 4/5 Bladed Armor.
I'm also curious on how much threat you guys are doing as unholy. With md's and raidbuffs i can just get past 4k sustained threat on a 10-man boss, but i usually hower around 3k sustained self buffed. I'm not holding back the dps atm, but they seem to scale alot better then i do and tbh i'm a little conserned on how my single target threat is going to be when they get geared up.
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