I'm assuming this is the root of your problems? You feel that your guildies do not vaule you as a person, and only think of you as Ranged DPS #14. Something to that effect?
Originally Posted by Buhly
I have a feeling that is just the way it is with larger guilds. If you do end up starting your own guild and grow large enough to attempt 25 man instances, I think you will quickly see what I mean. The guild leader and other officers are not always able to communicate to their players on a personal level. Personality differences, play time schedules, and just overall WoW enthusiasm all come into play.
As the raid leader of my guild, I can name maybe 12 players that I honestly enjoy playing and conversing with. The others - as you put it - are simply there to fill the appropriate slots.
If you are looking to be in an "intimate" raiding guild, I think you will likely want to stick to 10 man instances. I think that is just human nature - the more people involved, the less personal it gets. You can not expect the RL or GM of a 25 man raiding guild to be best friends with all of their guildmates. Depending on the guild, that can mean between 25 and 40 players.
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