Cider, a few of my friends and I recently started a raiding guild about a month or so ago and currently have about 11 raider thats are there for raids regularly (one tank that rotates with the off-tank). 7 out of 10 of them are in naxx25 gear from the previous guild and the other 3 are in naxx 10 gear. Currently we can barely make it through Naxx10 and Ulduar is just feeling farther and farther from reality. It seems like i'm the only one that understands why we are literally going backwards in progression instead of moving toward end-game content.
The problem that i'm seeing in our raids is that we only have one person that's actually above 3k dps and its only during a stationary boss like patchwerk. The other 5 dps typically will be around 1.8k-2.4k dps in a stationary fight. I understand that gear does not make the player, skill makes the player, but it seems to me that having gear at that level you should at least be around 3k minimum. I have tried to talk to individual players about trying to respec or try a new rotation just to get a "you don't play my class so you don't know what your talking about" type of response. They're nice people to be around and I love to play with them, but I just don't know how to tell them that in order to progress as a raiding guild doing 2.3k on average just won't cut it and they need to step it up in order to actually make it to ulduar before the next expansion.
Question:
How can I tell my guild that their dps needs to be improved in order to start progression without sounding like an eliteist jerk and sound like I just want to tell them how to play?
P.S. Your R.L. name reminds me of Patches o'Houlihan from Dodgeball the movie who is just awesome