Friends or Progression....
Posted 09-19-2008 at 08:49 AM by klor
This is one of the many dillemas people talk about on their blogs these days, especially with WotLK drawing near. Many of us want to see the big "Game Over" in the middle of our screen before the new "click here to continue" button appears. The biggest hurdle most seem to find when trying to reach this goal is this:
"Do you stay with those friends who you have played with all those hours, those friends you will probably continue to play with in WotLK... or do you take the window of opportunity when it opens, climb through it without looking back, and jump the hurdle with ease..."
Well, yesterday....that window opened for me. It has its draw backs, things I am not so sure about, but the positive sides of it are far out weighing the negative...including the chance to see the rest of Sunwell and possibly seeing KJ die once or twice before Wrath gets here.... I think for once... I am going to crawl through that window without remorse...
For those of you who read my blog back when my last guild died, the one I main tanked for... you know that I am far from the selfish type. At that time I could have joined almost any guild on the server as my tank, but I stepped down from tanking to allow a very good friend a chance to find a good home and I took a step backwards to play my shaman (which these days, sadly, has became my main...atleast until WotLK hits). I stuck around in that guild until the very end, longer than I probably should have, and bid each of my friends farewell and best wishes as they lifted their anchor and sailed to other harbors. All the while, I cannot deny the fact that these friends that did leave ever so quickly, are the reason my shaman is as geared as he is today in the short amount of time that he was. If it were not for them vouching for me and my play style as well as what they had seen by my tanking, I would never have gotten into any of the guilds. Afterall, what kind of BT guild wants a resto shaman in Karazhan epics and no flying mount as well as very little raid healing experience? In the end, it turned out boding well for the guild that snatched me up (after all, most guilds would have readily snatched up a resto shaman with a tier6 tank alt for those "oh no we need ....class....." moments that all guilds reach.) as my raid attendance was 100% and these days I am sitting at the top or near the top of the healing meters on almost every fight besides the obvious gimmick fights for certain classes (bloodboil, illidan, etc etc). For this, I do thank all those friends that begged their new GM to invite my budget alt, and I thank the GM for actually giving me the chance to prove myself...but, like I said... its my turn to be the selfish person, to actually reach my own goal... I want to see the "Game Over". I'm tired of being so far behind in progression over the rest of the world, and I do not want to be one of the people in a year from now who tells stories of never seeing certain fights, but being ever so close. Hell, six months ago, I would have told you that I never would have thought to see SSC/TK, four months ago, I never would have thought to see the death of Kael/Vashj/and many other BT bosses....Two months ago Illidan was out of my grasp and seeing him dead while my tank standing over his body as he dies in his cinematic was something I thought I would never see due to the explosion of my guild, and before yesterday, I never thought I would have a chance to see Mu'ru or Kil'jaedin...but now...
Now the option is there and I am taking it
My only issue, is that the option involves people that I did not get along with very much when Good Guild was still in the picture. I had a run in with quite a few of them, and I do not know what this will bring as a result, but I intend to keep a positive look on things, overlook the past, and keep my chin high. When WotLK comes, I plan to be pushing the frontal content and hopefully be on the front edge of progression, seeing possibly even world firsts... I am sooooooooooo sick of being behind times....
"Do you stay with those friends who you have played with all those hours, those friends you will probably continue to play with in WotLK... or do you take the window of opportunity when it opens, climb through it without looking back, and jump the hurdle with ease..."
Well, yesterday....that window opened for me. It has its draw backs, things I am not so sure about, but the positive sides of it are far out weighing the negative...including the chance to see the rest of Sunwell and possibly seeing KJ die once or twice before Wrath gets here.... I think for once... I am going to crawl through that window without remorse...
For those of you who read my blog back when my last guild died, the one I main tanked for... you know that I am far from the selfish type. At that time I could have joined almost any guild on the server as my tank, but I stepped down from tanking to allow a very good friend a chance to find a good home and I took a step backwards to play my shaman (which these days, sadly, has became my main...atleast until WotLK hits). I stuck around in that guild until the very end, longer than I probably should have, and bid each of my friends farewell and best wishes as they lifted their anchor and sailed to other harbors. All the while, I cannot deny the fact that these friends that did leave ever so quickly, are the reason my shaman is as geared as he is today in the short amount of time that he was. If it were not for them vouching for me and my play style as well as what they had seen by my tanking, I would never have gotten into any of the guilds. Afterall, what kind of BT guild wants a resto shaman in Karazhan epics and no flying mount as well as very little raid healing experience? In the end, it turned out boding well for the guild that snatched me up (after all, most guilds would have readily snatched up a resto shaman with a tier6 tank alt for those "oh no we need ....class....." moments that all guilds reach.) as my raid attendance was 100% and these days I am sitting at the top or near the top of the healing meters on almost every fight besides the obvious gimmick fights for certain classes (bloodboil, illidan, etc etc). For this, I do thank all those friends that begged their new GM to invite my budget alt, and I thank the GM for actually giving me the chance to prove myself...but, like I said... its my turn to be the selfish person, to actually reach my own goal... I want to see the "Game Over". I'm tired of being so far behind in progression over the rest of the world, and I do not want to be one of the people in a year from now who tells stories of never seeing certain fights, but being ever so close. Hell, six months ago, I would have told you that I never would have thought to see SSC/TK, four months ago, I never would have thought to see the death of Kael/Vashj/and many other BT bosses....Two months ago Illidan was out of my grasp and seeing him dead while my tank standing over his body as he dies in his cinematic was something I thought I would never see due to the explosion of my guild, and before yesterday, I never thought I would have a chance to see Mu'ru or Kil'jaedin...but now...
Now the option is there and I am taking it

My only issue, is that the option involves people that I did not get along with very much when Good Guild was still in the picture. I had a run in with quite a few of them, and I do not know what this will bring as a result, but I intend to keep a positive look on things, overlook the past, and keep my chin high. When WotLK comes, I plan to be pushing the frontal content and hopefully be on the front edge of progression, seeing possibly even world firsts... I am sooooooooooo sick of being behind times....
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| | GOOD LUCK KLOR! In the new game you may have KJ dead as an achievement that would be really cool Ill settle for my bear mount where people will either think I earned it or I bought it lol |
Posted 09-19-2008 at 09:04 AM by hbombs |
| | it's a sad day when friends and progression can't go hand in hand... I've been too busy with school to really seriously contemplate moving to a hardcore raid guild, and maybe in some ways that's a good thing. I think if I were able to raid 4-5 nights a week consistently I'd make the same decision you did. good luck! |
Posted 09-19-2008 at 09:21 AM by Halandir |
| | Klor. you took the same option as me. For me, i have always believed that the game was about progression no matter how we look at it and this is why people play it. People who cant play to raid play to upgrade their gear, through PvP, heroics and badges. this is a form of progression. people who cant raid "hard-core" set some goals as to what they want to see. they progress. people who can raid "hard-core" try to push to the very end. They progress. the most satisfaction one can get from life is completing something that you like. in this game, this comes in the forms of progression. personally, my friends can think what they want. i pay and play for progression because i find it satisfying. i find it fun! i see friends and progression as two seperate things. sure being in a guild with people you are friends with is good but in the end, it doesnt matter, you can talk to them at any point. as for raiding with them, i frequently find that people have significantly different goals when it comes to raiding, especially friends. for example, i started my own guild a while back to try and progress as fast as humanly possible. my friends came across from my old guild and swiftly infiltrated officer rank and let everyone know that we would be a "casual guild". this pissed me right off. then they initiated a merger with a bigger guild without letting me know, and what do you know, i ended up with no guild. fortunatly on that night, someone from Voodoo (my current guild) whispered me about wanting me for their guild and that was my window. Friends and raiding are never the same thing and friends can still be friends outside of raiding. imo at least. ![]() anyways, Shoot for the stars kid! *puffs cigar* good luck. |
Posted 09-20-2008 at 08:28 AM by Sanelora |
| | There's two subtly different things here: beating the content, and being part of the elite. Personally, I don't care much about beating the content. I'd like to see all the content because, well, I paid for it and it's fun, but beating it well, whatever. I've been in a server first guild for a short while and quit it. They seemed to be excited about their first kills. For me that's not a big deal. It's either a convenient way to see the content (fast enough) or too much work to follow (too fast). However, being part of the elite is totally another matter. I loved playing with a team that good, whether we were killing Vashj, farming Kara, or even doing instances. It gave me a feeling of being part of a serious team that cares about stuff, and where it's worth pushing my character to be the best I can. That part of it I seriously miss. Your friends may take a different view to the "progression" bit and the "elite" bit. Certainly I got little sympathy for joining the top guild. |
Posted 09-20-2008 at 10:53 AM by Machus |
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